{"id":2127,"date":"2026-07-23T11:03:08","date_gmt":"2026-07-23T02:33:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/depedilocosnorte.com\/sdoin\/index.php\/2026\/07\/23\/true-mentors-run-the-risk-of-being-hated-and-miscalculated-but-what-matters-most-in-them-is-the-persistence-to-mold-individua\/"},"modified":"2026-07-23T11:03:08","modified_gmt":"2026-07-23T02:33:08","slug":"true-mentors-run-the-risk-of-being-hated-and-miscalculated-but-what-matters-most-in-them-is-the-persistence-to-mold-individua","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/depedilocosnorte.com\/sdoin\/index.php\/2026\/07\/23\/true-mentors-run-the-risk-of-being-hated-and-miscalculated-but-what-matters-most-in-them-is-the-persistence-to-mold-individua\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;True mentors run the risk of being hated and miscalculated&#8230;but what matters most in them is the persistence to mold individua&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;True mentors run the risk of being hated and miscalculated&#8230;but what matters most in them is the persistence to mold individuals to become their own man and to make sure that they would be better than they were&#8230;&#8221; Thank you Atty. Oscar S. Moreno, I too once had a mentor like you!<\/p>\n<p>-don-<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/scontent-cdg6-1.xx.fbcdn.net\/v\/t39.30808-6\/750566687_1518657533639663_3905058110273012412_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_p720x720_tt6&amp;_nc_cat=103&amp;ccb=1-7&amp;_nc_sid=833d8c&amp;_nc_ohc=95Sy0YThnUEQ7kNvwFoWja_&amp;_nc_oc=AdqSS1dNR1nLt3o-0wnH4LmHuf2ok9hzV0qZDzc80OPgl6PkUouQvCz_-3YozxMxkqU&amp;_nc_zt=23&amp;_nc_ht=scontent-cdg6-1.xx&amp;edm=AJdBtusEAAAA&amp;_nc_gid=XQtNB1bl-e2tbSdVt4k1gA&amp;_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQF0_uT0uIFxhRzyCNCD5UqENHER4uKkwll4rzTaTvT0N_JNk3uJpO0iZ6gXAHN7rG_Bfq0E0BPq&amp;oh=00_AQDrnyK6sQOjutFXwgwQk1S27TVIyca4iGKvBFr5oAEMuQ&amp;oe=6A68D3AA\" \/><br \/>\n\u201cIf you ever worked with me, you probably dreaded getting your memo back.<\/p>\n<p>Those who worked with me in government know one thing.<\/p>\n<p>I rarely signed a memorandum without reading it carefully.<\/p>\n<p>Every memo that reached my desk would usually come back with something.<\/p>\n<p>An underlined sentence.<\/p>\n<p>A circled paragraph.<\/p>\n<p>A question on the margin.<\/p>\n<p>A correction.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes several pages full of handwritten notes.<\/p>\n<p>I know many department heads found it frustrating.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, I think some of them dreaded seeing my handwriting on their documents.<\/p>\n<p>Then one day, a department head submitted a memorandum.<\/p>\n<p>I read it from beginning to end.<\/p>\n<p>I returned it without making a single mark.<\/p>\n<p>He looked relieved.<\/p>\n<p>Then I smiled and asked him,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWho prepared this memo?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He hesitated.<\/p>\n<p>It turned out someone else had written it.<\/p>\n<p>I told him,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI knew it wasn\u2019t yours.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>We all laughed.<\/p>\n<p>From then on, my handwritten corrections became something of an inside joke.<\/p>\n<p>Some department heads would even say,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKung daghan ug correction si Mayor, pasabot ana gi-review gyud niya.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Looking back, I realize it was never about finding mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>It was about helping people improve.<\/p>\n<p>Because every document represented the work of government.<\/p>\n<p>And the work of government deserved our very best.<\/p>\n<p>Leadership is not about demanding perfection.<\/p>\n<p>It is about helping people become better than they were yesterday.<\/p>\n<p>Years later, many of those department heads would tell me that those handwritten notes made them better writers, better managers, and better public servants.<\/p>\n<p>If that is true, then every minute spent reviewing those memos was time well spent.<\/p>\n<p><span>(Feed generated with <a href=\"https:\/\/fetchrss.com\/feedLink?w=67638b7b743958e9f80d00c2\" target=\"_blank\">FetchRSS<\/a>)<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;True mentors run the risk of being hated and miscalculated&#8230;but what matters most in them is the persistence to mold &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":2128,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2127","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorised"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/depedilocosnorte.com\/sdoin\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2127","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/depedilocosnorte.com\/sdoin\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/depedilocosnorte.com\/sdoin\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/depedilocosnorte.com\/sdoin\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2127"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/depedilocosnorte.com\/sdoin\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2127\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/depedilocosnorte.com\/sdoin\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2128"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/depedilocosnorte.com\/sdoin\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2127"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/depedilocosnorte.com\/sdoin\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2127"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/depedilocosnorte.com\/sdoin\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2127"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}